Meditation
Meditation has existed for over 2000 years but has in recent times become very popular and is now used by many to help relax the body and mind. Meditation can help connect you to higher consciousness (Light) and your inner voice. It instills calm, peace and clarity of mind. Well versed meditators can use meditation to resolve issues, bring focus and enhance creativity, intuition and insight.
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When you build meditation practice into your life in a whole-hearted and meaningful way, the environment of your mind and heart transforms, and this can have positive repercussions in your day-to-day life. I have found meditation to be great at healing, bringing peace, protection and instilling a greater sense of self. I always feel calmer and more focused after meditating.
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Dedicating time to practice is key. It is only by doing meditation on a regular basis that you will feel the benefits, get better and enhance your life and sense of well-being.
Quiet the mind and the soul will speak.
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Ma Jaya Sati Bhagavati
The more tranquil a man becomes, the greater is his success, his influence, his power for good.
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James Allen
Quite often you feel you are just too busy to stop and take the time to meditate - the 'I just don't have time' syndrome. The irony being that if you took the time to stop and meditate you would get more done, be more focussed, have greater composure - your tasks would simplify and feel more manageable - you'd be calmer and more in control. Stopping and turning your focus inwards and doing something as beautiful as meditating, is a gift you should give yourself daily.
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I believe if people mediated during their working day, productivity and creativity would increase, stress levels would lower and people would communicate more openly and honestly. Doctors are now recommending meditation to people for various conditions but notably for blood pressure. Meditation has been proven to maintain healthy blood pressure, prevent high blood pressure and reduce medication in those with hypertension. Hypertension contributes to the major causes of disease and death, including heart disease, heart attack, stroke and kidney failure, so meditation is a helpful aid for people with these health conditions and others. Reducing stress is a key reason people turn to meditation but some of the other benefits include:
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Enhancing self-awareness
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Controlling anxiety
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Promoting wellbeing and happiness
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Increasing focus and attention span
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Improving sleep
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Incentivises - more creativity, desire to exercise etc
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Increases empathy and compassion
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Promotes calmness, peace, and self-control
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Enhances immune system
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Releases muscle tension
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Aids post-operative healing
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There are numerous books on the power of meditation, so you can do further research. The Healing Power of Meditation, edited by Andy Fraser, Why Meditate? Because it Works by Jillian Lavender and The Healing Power of Sound by Dr M. Gaynor.
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There are many different types of meditation out there; transcendental, walking, body scanning, mantras, breathing based, mindfulness exercises, Qi Gong, Tai Chi etc. Sometimes meditation can mean very different things to people. The meditation I have always engaged in and trained in is guided meditations. These are spoken meditations, with music in the background, that take you on a journey usually through nature, with an animal or with colours, for example.
You are led by the words and music until you find a place of peace for rest and relaxation. You are left here, for a period of time, with just the music playing. The meditation guide then brings you back, usually reversing your journey until you are safely grounded and ready to open your eyes. I have always meditated with Light of Hope CIC (also known as The Hope Centre) and trained with them in writing and leading meditations. You can visit their website here - Light of Hope CIC
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Meditation helps you become more in control of your thoughts, and you don't need to practise for long to feel the benefits. Studies with beginners showed that people felt more resilient and could concentrate better after just four sessions of 20 minutes each. This 20 minutes is known as the 'sweet spot' for your brain - the amount of time needed to encourage your brain to release alpha waves, which sends you into a calming but focused state of relaxation.
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Article in Top Sante Magazine, Spring 2017
Meditation subtly re-engineers the brain, weakening some neural connections and strengthening others, and affecting areas associated with the sense of self, empathy, and stress. Science confirms what many know to be true from direct experience of meditation - that meditators tend to take things less personally, to be less reactive to perceived threats, dangers, and discomforts, and generally to be less prone to acting on animal impulses.
Practical Mindfulness. A step-by-step guide. Consultant: Ken A. Verni, Psy.D., 2015
Try this guided meditation called The Swan for free. There is also River Moon from The Hope Centre Manchester's You Tube channel, where you can find some more free meditations.
Click through to the Meditation Store (below) for purchasable albums of guided meditations for adults and specific meditation albums created for babies and toddlers.
Guided Meditation
Seated
The most important thing when doing guided meditations is to be in a comfortable position with your back supported and straight. For most this is best achieved by sitting in a backed chair, placing your hands on your knees or thighs, so that your shoulders can be encouraged to relax (as we mostly carry tension in our shoulders).
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Feet to Floor
It is important to remain 'grounded' to aid the meditation process. This requires you to keep your feet firmly on the floor. If your feet don't easily touch the floor, you can use cushions under your feet to achieve this ground connection.
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Busy Head
Sometimes it is difficult to relax and thoughts from the day, shopping lists, work problems etc flood your mind. If this happens just know that it is normal, breathe, and gently put those thoughts to onside and try to focus in on the music and words. Please note that this doesn't mean the meditation isn't working. This happens frequently and it's about learning how to control those thoughts and train yourself to focus in on the meditation.
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Own Journey
Sometimes you might drift off onto your own journey, with different imagery. This is also fine and you are free to follow where this leads, so long as it's peaceful and calming.
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Coughs and sneezing
Always allow your body to release any coughs or sneezes throughout a meditation. This is genuinely a good sign that your body is relaxing and releasing.
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How to Meditate - Adults
Music therapy for babies and meditations for toddlers and children are helpful in bringing calm, joy and relaxation. Children find the mediations relaxing, peaceful and magical. It allows them to explore their inner landscape, develop strength and resilience and build self-esteem and confidence within. Some benefits include:
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Stimulates creativity
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Brings peace and calm
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Builds confidence and self-esteem
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Generates resilience and strength
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Develops communication and social skills
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Stimulates a greater sense of self
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Provides emotional wellbeing
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Encourages playfulness
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